May God, or a higher power guide love and protect you as follow the loving light of Clay as he lives and shines in your lives still just a different light, never dimmer always brighter. Faith and love may not take away your loss but may lead you through and amongst tears blessing you with joy nurturing how you were and are blessed to have had him. As so many were. Serenity is there for us amongst all loss please may you be guided to it and your pain and grief eased. I my heart and soul goes out to you now and forever for your loss. He was a good man. A very good man. With respect, tears and a note to self -- It is imperative I be more frugal