The Vaught Family & Herman In the difficult days to come, each day can be used as a special day for celebrating Margie's life. Grieving stems not from her death itself but from the loss of her. It is the loss of her laughter, her love, and connections past, present, and future for which we mourn. For many of us, moments of reminiscences are one of the truest measurements of our enduring love. For as Solomon said in the Song of Songs: "Love is greater than death."